Cindy Meston, a professor of psychology at Texas Tech University, and her colleague, David Bass, in his book Why Women Have Sex (Why do women have sex) presented a list of reasons why women have sex.
Among them are the most common - the desire to lose weight, get rid of a headache, or even simple politeness.
Excerpt from the new book publishes The Daily Mail.
In this excerpt from the book are amazing scientific facts behind the most common motives, wrote korrespondent.net.
Thus, the first cause of the writers called headache. And indeed: in the course of a sexual act of the head and neck muscles are often tense, and at the moment of orgasm raises blood pressure, which could aggravate the headache or cause it to rise. From a scientific point of view this is called koitalnoy tsefalgiey.
However, as noted by Meston and Bass, in their own research they were able to establish that some women are just trying to have sex to get rid of a headache.
As described 62-year-old woman: "I suffer from migraines, and I noticed that during sex. Especially if I reach orgasm, they are. Another woman said that the doctor recommended that she have sex to relieve the suffering from migraines.
The author explains how the sexual act can simultaneously, and cause, and cure headaches. In intimacy, our body produces hormones joy endorphins, chemically similar to morphine, they are something and act as a powerful analgesic.
Another common cause, which is called many women turned out to be surprisingly simple: a man just having a good kisser. Meston and Bass wrote that kissing escorted intercourse in 90% of cultures.
The fact that our lips were thickly studded with sensitive neurons, which are there more than anywhere else in the human body. Moreover, the connecting tongue, nose and cheeks.
In one study has found that kissing leads to lower levels of cortisol, a stress hormone, and it calms and relaxes. Kiss also transmits information about the health of the partner, as well as bad breath can be a sign of illness.
Women tend to use the kiss as an emotional litmus test that shows whether or not to move to the next level.
Men kissing definitely do not have such a great value.
Polls showed that 53% of men are ready to have sex without kissing, while only 13% of women agreed to this option.
At the same time, a bad kiss - sexy switch. Another study showed that 66% of women's sexual attraction fizzles out after such a failure kiss.
Some women admit that they used sex to avenge his wrong partners.
"My husband cheated on me a couple of years ago. Then I gained weight after the birth of our daughter, and in general felt incredibly useless. Six months later, after I found out about his affair, I dropped the weight and betrayed him with his best friend. It was cool, "said one of the women.
As the authors write books, sex can help people lose weight, and some women increases the rate of having sex for this reason.
According to various studies, one of intercourse burns from 100 to 250 calories. Naturally, the gap is due to athletic component: pirouette worthy of ballet, burn more calories than just lying on his back.
According to a survey conducted among 1,400 women aged 18 to 59 years, the average woman has sex 6.3 times a month. For 20-30-year-olds, this figure is somewhat higher (7.5), for 50-60-year-olds, respectively, below (4).
Given that a kilogram of fat - that's about 7000 calories, the average woman burns in this way 1,7 kg of fat per year, in other words, if it ceases to have sex, saving habits and diet, ten years her weight grows to 17 kg. On the other hand, if a woman is having sex, rather than two to four times a week, and 18.3 and 36.6 minutes, it will burn the extra 2 kg of fat per year. Or, keeping the same weight, eat 17 chocolate desserts, 23 of sweet dumpling and 14 truffle per year more.
Many women, especially married women, called in as a reason for sex, even if they are not in the mood, the obligation to do so.
"I'm married for 32 years. And it seems natural after so long, that from time to time are you doing with my husband having sex just because you feel it my duty," said one 53-year-old woman.
For some, the authors point out, the conviction that sex - marital duty, rooted in religious beliefs, but for most of it comes from a cultural context where men are traditionally seen as the breadwinner of the family, in response to which the wife is the responsibility of raising children, household economy and the satisfaction of her husband. Despite the fact that today many wives also work, these ideas are still passed down to younger generations.
The authors also write that the fair sex with children are taught compassion and sympathy, worry about the feelings of others.
Several women in our own study, the authors admitted that they use sex as a tool of comfort. Many women younger than thirty years, was told that they had sex out of pity, because a man desperately trying to lose their virginity or could not invite anyone to visit.
In other cases, middle-aged women had sex with the same age, going through a hard divorce, while others did so to create a partner, feeling that he is loved and safe.
How to remind the authors of the book, to people as a social being constantly threatened by potential competitors, ready to seduce our partners in the affair or even a permanent relationship. Also, we are continuously faced with the threat that our partners will tear us hoping to find someone better.
The study showed that women often use sex to protect relationships. They carry out the wishes of the partner so that he remained happy.
According to Bass and Meston, many women, especially the young, among the reasons to have sex call and desire to improve their skills. Some said that they sought sexual experience, to avoid the humiliation of the fact that they will be seen as sexually inexperienced.
"When I first had sex, largely the reason was that I was 19 years old, and had the feeling that it is time to learn how it delaetsya.Ya wanted to know what to do next time," said one woman.
The authors add that from a scientific point of view, the more experienced woman in the sex, the greater the likelihood that she will reach orgasm.
This is confirmed by the classic study of Alfred Kinsey conducted a half-century ago, during which it was found that women reach their sexual peak between the ages of 30 to 40 years.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
How to ensure a slow sex all night?
This is not just another way to revive the sex life, but a whole philosophy that came to us from Albion. Englishmen with great pleasure remembering those times when sex could last all night.
And now intimacy lasts an average of 20 minutes. This fact became clear during a special study published in the British magazine The Sun. But experts say that the exit is. They have great hopes for the so-called slow sex - slow sex.
This is not about to devote more time to private life. This implies a new approach to the familiar, in general, things. Gist of it is to enjoy without haste. To feel the taste of sex, to enjoy a variety of flavors, listen to the rhythms of nature, be natural.
"The first step should be a general principle slow in everyday life - experts explain. - It is impossible to feel relaxed, naturally in love, if in everyday life, two rushing like a madman."
So the basic rule: do not try to reach orgasm at all costs, to relax and enjoy the process.
No damage and partial planning visits. "Of course, a happy meeting of two lovers, and the process can not be organized like a trip to the notary. But in order to escape from the whirl of everyday affairs and concerns still need to think about the special space created solely for loving couples - without friends , children, relatives, lists of cases and products, and preferably the TV.
However, if you do not have enough for the whole night and besides you get up early tomorrow - does not matter. Remember that the second half of the day and generally during daylight hours, too, can become the prelude to the night. Above all, no fuss. Hurry slowly. And always will!
And now intimacy lasts an average of 20 minutes. This fact became clear during a special study published in the British magazine The Sun. But experts say that the exit is. They have great hopes for the so-called slow sex - slow sex.
This is not about to devote more time to private life. This implies a new approach to the familiar, in general, things. Gist of it is to enjoy without haste. To feel the taste of sex, to enjoy a variety of flavors, listen to the rhythms of nature, be natural.
"The first step should be a general principle slow in everyday life - experts explain. - It is impossible to feel relaxed, naturally in love, if in everyday life, two rushing like a madman."
So the basic rule: do not try to reach orgasm at all costs, to relax and enjoy the process.
No damage and partial planning visits. "Of course, a happy meeting of two lovers, and the process can not be organized like a trip to the notary. But in order to escape from the whirl of everyday affairs and concerns still need to think about the special space created solely for loving couples - without friends , children, relatives, lists of cases and products, and preferably the TV.
However, if you do not have enough for the whole night and besides you get up early tomorrow - does not matter. Remember that the second half of the day and generally during daylight hours, too, can become the prelude to the night. Above all, no fuss. Hurry slowly. And always will!
The philosophy of sex. Tantric Sex
You have long and saturated with sexual life was gradually uspokaivatsya. All safe for life poses from Kamasutra tried, sexual games are played, extreme sex on the roof of the bus - your best recollection. Maybe it is time to try something radically new? For example, tantric sex. This, of course, for the very patient, because such sex session lasts from 2 to 10 hours, but you also want new sensations? Then - go! Tantric sex - is a special kind of love that allows you and your partner get to know each other better and to get at this unearthly pleasure. Believe me, the game worth the candle, you just do everything right, wrote mignews.com.ua.
Some history
Generally, tantric sex - is part of a philosophical system, which came to us from India. This kind of intimacy involves not only physical but also spiritual connection is mandatory partners. It is believed that during such sex kundalini energy, sleeping in most of the lower chakras, awakened and rises upwards towards the head, through the energy channel in the spine. The task of man is not simply bring a woman to orgasm, but give her this unearthly pleasure! After all the usual European men intercourse lasts 3-5 minutes, and Tantric sexual contact is extended to 1.5 hours! But without the feasible help him, of course, nothing happens.
It is clear that for the expansion of consciousness, as it does with the true followers of tantra, need months of special training, but if you follow our advice, you can better understand the sexual preferences of each other! So, let's begin.
Increase sensitivity
As with any serious undertaking, Tantric sex requires careful preparation. We want to offer you and your partner a series of exercises that will allow you to both enhance the sensitivity and severity of sexual sensations.
Exercise 1. Of course, the sense of smell in humans is not as well developed as in animals, but it plays an important role in the relationship, especially in sex. So have a few items that have a characteristic odor. This can be anything that tells a fantasy - orange peel, ginger, perfumes, soaps, aromatic oils. However, as should explore these smells, and then play around in "guessing": tie a man's eyes and let him sniff you one thing or another - let them guessing! Then switch.
Guess correctly? Complicate the task: take multiple items, and ask your partner to guess - from what components made this product? This game will help you both learn to focus on their olfactory sensations.
Exercise 2. Now potreniruem touch: Take a few scraps of different fabrics - silk, denim, cotton, fur, and try to remember what they touch. Now - the same "Guessing", only with more erotic: a woman tying a man rubbed his eyes and turn fabric scraps from any part of his body. Then swapped.
Try to identify with those feelings, but should not be upset if you do not get everything at once - after all, you just learn.
Exercise 3. This exercise is very difficult, especially if the partners are not completing a music school. Turn on classical music and try to trace the party of any one instrument, as if you were trying to track down the voice of a good companion, who says something in a very noisy cafe with live music.
Exercise 4. Every time before the next tutorial need to brush your teeth and tongue and rinse your mouth with cool water. Now put in a glass of water with a pinch of sugar and stir to dissolve sugar completely. Try to taste (your partner should do the same!). If you do not feel the presence of sugar in the water, add a little more, stir again and try. Note - how much sugar should be that you and your partner finally felt his taste in water. Repeat this exercise with salt, and then - with lemon juice. Exercise is met successfully, if you learn to ignore half of the original amount of sugar, salt and lemon. As a "test" you can tie your partner's eyes - that he may not see exactly what you mix into the water - everything must be to be honest!
Tantric Sex for Beginners
You have long together, and was originally a violent sexual life began as a ustakanivatsya: all safe for life poses of Kamasutra tried, sexual games are played, extreme sex on the roof of the bus - your best recollection. Maybe it is time to try something radically new? For example, tantric sex. This, of course, for the very patient, because such sex session lasts from 2 to 10 hours, but you also want new sensations? Then - go! Tantric sex - is a special kind of love that allows you and your partner get to know each other better and to get at this unearthly pleasure. Believe me, the game worth the candle, you just do it right!
In charge - Stand up!
Exercises to enhance sensuality well also be combined with physical exercise, which will allow you both to extend the enjoyment and to ensure a strong and vibrant sensations during orgasm. First, it is "Kegel exercises", which you certainly do not forget to doing 10-15 minutes a day, but for those who forget, remember: you have to alternately stretch and relax the muscles of the vagina. This exercise is great because it can be done anytime and anywhere - at a meeting at work at the computer, in line at the cashier in the supermarket. And no one will notice.
And secondly, to improve blood circulation in the pelvic organs can perform the following exercise: lie on your back, bend your knees, hands to extend along the trunk. Ready? Now lift and lower pelvis, only slowly and smoothly. Start with 10 times and gradually increase the number of ascents. The more the better. Thirdly, lie on the floor face down, forearms and palms on the sides of the chest. Straining your back muscles, raise the chest and threw his head back, staring at the ceiling. This exercise is enough to meet three times per session. Well, you are ready to proceed to the main point.
Atmosphere
In tantric sex no trifles. You first need to prepare a place. In India, these practices were held in special temples, so that nothing extraneous distractions lovers from the merger of the bodies and souls. Of course, we do not offer you a trip to India, although it would be wonderful. You can create the right atmosphere and at home. Unplug the phone, get your computer, TV and other devices. Leave only heater - the room should be warm, because you also want to have fun, but not cold.
Engage in spiritual and bodily connection is better in daylight, and before the "X" it is desirable to abstain from sex at least a couple of days.
In your "church" should not be the brightest objects and nothing can divert you from each other. However, aromatic candles or oil burner with oils of ylang-ylang or sandalwood, as well as non-intrusive Eastern music or sounds of nature not only hurt the cause, but to tune you and your partner on the right footing. It is also necessary to prepare the bathroom: subdued lighting, better - aromatic candles, soft warm towels - all this is necessarily useful.
By the way, keep in mind that if a good breakfast before this event, you probably will not work. It is better to wear in the morning something erotic and prepare a light breakfast, full of aphrodisiacs: oysters, mussels, avocado, mushrooms, citrus, chocolate, coffee or cocoa - let go of his culinary imagination and the reward will not be slow to manifest themselves. Not bad to drink a glass of wine - it helps you both to remove residual stress after the working week and relax.
Preparatory phase
Thus, the atmosphere is created, it's time to prepare. First, partners must learn to breathe in unison: it needs to undress, lie opposite each other and imagine how your body goes through a bright orange energy flow.
Try making sure that your breath was simultaneously: inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale. This exercise is necessary: it insists you to the desired wave, and you'll feel a whole. Got it? And no giggling, please. However, the initial sound of laughter can not be avoided, so relax and laugh - all the same you are all sure to get. The second part of the preparatory phase, you'd better spend in the bathroom. Hot water relieves muscle tension, and light massage with aromatic oils - you do not forget them, right? - Delicious in any case. Caressed each other simultaneously or one by one - as you like. There are no rules, except one - to have fun.
Main dish
Well, you laid on the table, you can now go to the main dish! Gently pat each other's body with soft warm towels and hand in hand, go into the bedroom.
Note - in tantra is important is not the sexual act itself, and the affection and close observation of sensations partner, so do not habitually close their eyes while fondling and sex directly. Admire each other - both of you are so beautiful! You can play a little with his sensibility: pieces of fur, brushes, make-up (new and natural, of course), feathers - all can be brought to bear. But no handcuffs, whips and brute force. Leave it for next time. Aerobatic studies also to anything, choose to copulate any position that does not require great effort.
Not bad, for example, try the pose of the "swing". If during the development of Kama Sutra, you is not got to her - remember: a man sits down, bending your knees, and the woman sits on top of him, and the couple begins to swing smoothly ... However, in Tantra, there can be no sudden movements, because the faster and sharper you both move, the faster the orgasm comes, and your challenge now - to prolong the sexual act as long as possible. One of the techniques of tantric sex is called "karetstsa" - "gentle touch": all actions committed knowingly, and partners enjoy every moment of sexual intercourse, but do not play in the wedding baboons in the pursuit of orgasm. Orgasm will come necessarily, but in tantra the culmination of much more powerful and longer than normal coitus.
It is important to move very slowly, trying to feel every movement of your body. And yet - at the time of tantric sex can not think of anything except the beloved and the process itself. So that important issues such as the impending whitewash the ceiling, the tax inspection or dinner tomorrow is postponed for later. It is very important! Making love, you both must be fully liberated. Now we can all - crying, screaming, moaning. If you are clamped, or about what tantra can be no question!
The most important issue
In general, if prior to this moment you have done everything correctly, you will spend several unforgettable hours, and stand up from the bed to date. But we can not answered the main question: how can a man can prolong sexual intercourse at least 30 minutes? Most men use for this purpose football or stock quotes. The reports, as well as football, is such that sex could end, really not begun, and in general tantra prohibits think about anything other than her partner. Therefore, in the process of sexual intercourse the man should not focus on football, and a woman on the observation of its reaction and move away while on himself.
It is useful to buy a book on tantric sex is not everything - train stock quotes potency ruin. Yes, by the way, most of these books, he can deduct that experienced male orgasm occurs without ejaculation. So it really is, and men are seriously engaged in tantra for years, can prolong intercourse almost to infinity. In Chinese Taoism, by the way, ejaculation in men is generally considered very harmful, because in this case consumes precious male yang energy.
However, this can by no means all, and if your partner suddenly decided that's just not on Monday to finish more than ever, still try to dissuade him because tantric sex at the end and because the man will not focus on the woman, but only in the absence of ejaculation. This is wrong. In tantric practice, as with any form of sex in general, the main thing - not the process itself, and you and your feelings. Wonderfull you orgasm!
Some history
Generally, tantric sex - is part of a philosophical system, which came to us from India. This kind of intimacy involves not only physical but also spiritual connection is mandatory partners. It is believed that during such sex kundalini energy, sleeping in most of the lower chakras, awakened and rises upwards towards the head, through the energy channel in the spine. The task of man is not simply bring a woman to orgasm, but give her this unearthly pleasure! After all the usual European men intercourse lasts 3-5 minutes, and Tantric sexual contact is extended to 1.5 hours! But without the feasible help him, of course, nothing happens.
It is clear that for the expansion of consciousness, as it does with the true followers of tantra, need months of special training, but if you follow our advice, you can better understand the sexual preferences of each other! So, let's begin.
Increase sensitivity
As with any serious undertaking, Tantric sex requires careful preparation. We want to offer you and your partner a series of exercises that will allow you to both enhance the sensitivity and severity of sexual sensations.
Exercise 1. Of course, the sense of smell in humans is not as well developed as in animals, but it plays an important role in the relationship, especially in sex. So have a few items that have a characteristic odor. This can be anything that tells a fantasy - orange peel, ginger, perfumes, soaps, aromatic oils. However, as should explore these smells, and then play around in "guessing": tie a man's eyes and let him sniff you one thing or another - let them guessing! Then switch.
Guess correctly? Complicate the task: take multiple items, and ask your partner to guess - from what components made this product? This game will help you both learn to focus on their olfactory sensations.
Exercise 2. Now potreniruem touch: Take a few scraps of different fabrics - silk, denim, cotton, fur, and try to remember what they touch. Now - the same "Guessing", only with more erotic: a woman tying a man rubbed his eyes and turn fabric scraps from any part of his body. Then swapped.
Try to identify with those feelings, but should not be upset if you do not get everything at once - after all, you just learn.
Exercise 3. This exercise is very difficult, especially if the partners are not completing a music school. Turn on classical music and try to trace the party of any one instrument, as if you were trying to track down the voice of a good companion, who says something in a very noisy cafe with live music.
Exercise 4. Every time before the next tutorial need to brush your teeth and tongue and rinse your mouth with cool water. Now put in a glass of water with a pinch of sugar and stir to dissolve sugar completely. Try to taste (your partner should do the same!). If you do not feel the presence of sugar in the water, add a little more, stir again and try. Note - how much sugar should be that you and your partner finally felt his taste in water. Repeat this exercise with salt, and then - with lemon juice. Exercise is met successfully, if you learn to ignore half of the original amount of sugar, salt and lemon. As a "test" you can tie your partner's eyes - that he may not see exactly what you mix into the water - everything must be to be honest!
Tantric Sex for Beginners
You have long together, and was originally a violent sexual life began as a ustakanivatsya: all safe for life poses of Kamasutra tried, sexual games are played, extreme sex on the roof of the bus - your best recollection. Maybe it is time to try something radically new? For example, tantric sex. This, of course, for the very patient, because such sex session lasts from 2 to 10 hours, but you also want new sensations? Then - go! Tantric sex - is a special kind of love that allows you and your partner get to know each other better and to get at this unearthly pleasure. Believe me, the game worth the candle, you just do it right!
In charge - Stand up!
Exercises to enhance sensuality well also be combined with physical exercise, which will allow you both to extend the enjoyment and to ensure a strong and vibrant sensations during orgasm. First, it is "Kegel exercises", which you certainly do not forget to doing 10-15 minutes a day, but for those who forget, remember: you have to alternately stretch and relax the muscles of the vagina. This exercise is great because it can be done anytime and anywhere - at a meeting at work at the computer, in line at the cashier in the supermarket. And no one will notice.
And secondly, to improve blood circulation in the pelvic organs can perform the following exercise: lie on your back, bend your knees, hands to extend along the trunk. Ready? Now lift and lower pelvis, only slowly and smoothly. Start with 10 times and gradually increase the number of ascents. The more the better. Thirdly, lie on the floor face down, forearms and palms on the sides of the chest. Straining your back muscles, raise the chest and threw his head back, staring at the ceiling. This exercise is enough to meet three times per session. Well, you are ready to proceed to the main point.
Atmosphere
In tantric sex no trifles. You first need to prepare a place. In India, these practices were held in special temples, so that nothing extraneous distractions lovers from the merger of the bodies and souls. Of course, we do not offer you a trip to India, although it would be wonderful. You can create the right atmosphere and at home. Unplug the phone, get your computer, TV and other devices. Leave only heater - the room should be warm, because you also want to have fun, but not cold.
Engage in spiritual and bodily connection is better in daylight, and before the "X" it is desirable to abstain from sex at least a couple of days.
In your "church" should not be the brightest objects and nothing can divert you from each other. However, aromatic candles or oil burner with oils of ylang-ylang or sandalwood, as well as non-intrusive Eastern music or sounds of nature not only hurt the cause, but to tune you and your partner on the right footing. It is also necessary to prepare the bathroom: subdued lighting, better - aromatic candles, soft warm towels - all this is necessarily useful.
By the way, keep in mind that if a good breakfast before this event, you probably will not work. It is better to wear in the morning something erotic and prepare a light breakfast, full of aphrodisiacs: oysters, mussels, avocado, mushrooms, citrus, chocolate, coffee or cocoa - let go of his culinary imagination and the reward will not be slow to manifest themselves. Not bad to drink a glass of wine - it helps you both to remove residual stress after the working week and relax.
Preparatory phase
Thus, the atmosphere is created, it's time to prepare. First, partners must learn to breathe in unison: it needs to undress, lie opposite each other and imagine how your body goes through a bright orange energy flow.
Try making sure that your breath was simultaneously: inhale, exhale, inhale, exhale. This exercise is necessary: it insists you to the desired wave, and you'll feel a whole. Got it? And no giggling, please. However, the initial sound of laughter can not be avoided, so relax and laugh - all the same you are all sure to get. The second part of the preparatory phase, you'd better spend in the bathroom. Hot water relieves muscle tension, and light massage with aromatic oils - you do not forget them, right? - Delicious in any case. Caressed each other simultaneously or one by one - as you like. There are no rules, except one - to have fun.
Main dish
Well, you laid on the table, you can now go to the main dish! Gently pat each other's body with soft warm towels and hand in hand, go into the bedroom.
Note - in tantra is important is not the sexual act itself, and the affection and close observation of sensations partner, so do not habitually close their eyes while fondling and sex directly. Admire each other - both of you are so beautiful! You can play a little with his sensibility: pieces of fur, brushes, make-up (new and natural, of course), feathers - all can be brought to bear. But no handcuffs, whips and brute force. Leave it for next time. Aerobatic studies also to anything, choose to copulate any position that does not require great effort.
Not bad, for example, try the pose of the "swing". If during the development of Kama Sutra, you is not got to her - remember: a man sits down, bending your knees, and the woman sits on top of him, and the couple begins to swing smoothly ... However, in Tantra, there can be no sudden movements, because the faster and sharper you both move, the faster the orgasm comes, and your challenge now - to prolong the sexual act as long as possible. One of the techniques of tantric sex is called "karetstsa" - "gentle touch": all actions committed knowingly, and partners enjoy every moment of sexual intercourse, but do not play in the wedding baboons in the pursuit of orgasm. Orgasm will come necessarily, but in tantra the culmination of much more powerful and longer than normal coitus.
It is important to move very slowly, trying to feel every movement of your body. And yet - at the time of tantric sex can not think of anything except the beloved and the process itself. So that important issues such as the impending whitewash the ceiling, the tax inspection or dinner tomorrow is postponed for later. It is very important! Making love, you both must be fully liberated. Now we can all - crying, screaming, moaning. If you are clamped, or about what tantra can be no question!
The most important issue
In general, if prior to this moment you have done everything correctly, you will spend several unforgettable hours, and stand up from the bed to date. But we can not answered the main question: how can a man can prolong sexual intercourse at least 30 minutes? Most men use for this purpose football or stock quotes. The reports, as well as football, is such that sex could end, really not begun, and in general tantra prohibits think about anything other than her partner. Therefore, in the process of sexual intercourse the man should not focus on football, and a woman on the observation of its reaction and move away while on himself.
It is useful to buy a book on tantric sex is not everything - train stock quotes potency ruin. Yes, by the way, most of these books, he can deduct that experienced male orgasm occurs without ejaculation. So it really is, and men are seriously engaged in tantra for years, can prolong intercourse almost to infinity. In Chinese Taoism, by the way, ejaculation in men is generally considered very harmful, because in this case consumes precious male yang energy.
However, this can by no means all, and if your partner suddenly decided that's just not on Monday to finish more than ever, still try to dissuade him because tantric sex at the end and because the man will not focus on the woman, but only in the absence of ejaculation. This is wrong. In tantric practice, as with any form of sex in general, the main thing - not the process itself, and you and your feelings. Wonderfull you orgasm!
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